There are needy people all over the world, and there are many people willing to help them, but too often, the people who can help are unaware of how to get started. It can be very intimidating to go to a strange place and help poor people that normally you would never socialize with and may feel uncomfortable being around them. I have found that it is much easier to help when there are other people who can support and help alongside you. Even the people who accomplish huge projects that most people would never dream of did not do it alone. Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin, authors of the book Three Cups of Tea, wrote of Mortenson's experience in Pakistan where he was aided by many people to build schools; at the Volunteers of America Food Bank in Everett, I have been volunteering with other people who have helped me learn how I can help.
In Pakistan, Greg Mortenson promised Haji Ali, the leader of Korphe, that he would build a school for the children of the village. It took Mortenson quite a few years to complete this task, and he went on to build other schools for villages who needed them just as much as Korphe did, but he did not complete these schools alone. He recieved needed help from people who were ready to give it without him asking. "Without Ghulam Parvi, I never would have accomplished anything in Pakistan," (Mortenson 138). Parvi was only one of Mortenson's many helpers. He was also helped by the people of Korphe who were willing to cut the stones for the village without pay. This sacrifice saved Mortenson a lot of money that would have been wasted on lazy workers. Haji Ali guided Mortenson through building the Korphe school, and his help taught Mortenson valuable lessons that he uses often. After the school of Korphe was built, Mortenson moved on to other projects and it was through the help of his team members that he was able to spend most of his time in the States while building other schools in Pakistan.
Without the help of other people, someone would not be able to accomplish as much. I have heard the analogy that a person is like a piece of thread that can break easily, but when many people with the same goal come together, their threads combine and becomes a strong cord. Team work is key when a person wants to accomplish something big. Everyone needs help, even the helpers themselves.
Great insight. It's true that oftentimes, it's difficult to help someone when they don't show you how they need to be helped. Or don't allow you to help them. It's always wonderful when all the pieces fall together and those who need help and those who offer help connect and the need is filled.
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